Live loose, don't lose!

I didn't plan to type this article at this moment.........

If possible.......I wish I would never need to.......though actually I had foreseen this scene two months ago..

可以的話 真希望我永遠都不用打這篇文章............即使我早已預見了這天的到來:(



It's an article I saw on the internet- How boys become bad men

從網路上看到的一篇文章-男孩是這樣變壞的

In the very beginning, All boys want to be single-minded, look at the girls' faces rather than their chest.

Actually no boy is born to say vulgar jokes but every boy did want to find his ture love and live happily ever after.

其實每個男孩，本來都是想做一個感情專一的好男人的。
其實每個男孩，本來看女孩子都是看臉而不是胸部的。
其實每個男孩，本來都是不會講黃色笑話的。
其實每個男孩，本來都是渴望愛一個人直到永遠的。

However, no girl would love such boys- childish, conservative, and not fun.

只是，沒有任何女孩愛這樣的男孩，她們覺得這樣的男孩太幼稚，太古板，沒有情趣。

So boys started to change, becoming the the girls' favorite style- with an attracting smile on their faces, being humor and careless, learning how to say sweet words rather than their thoughts, knowing how to pretend caring, giving presents and knowing how to pursue and grab the chance when opportunity comes.

Some consider love as a game, becoming the type of men women hate.

於是男孩開始改變，變成女孩喜歡的那種嘴角掛著壞壞的笑，玩世不恭或者幽默。
開始學會說甜言蜜語而不是心裡想說的話。開始學會假裝關心，學會給女孩送小飾物討好她，
學會如何追求，如何把握愛情。或者看破紅塵，遊戲情場，成為女人恨恨的那種男人。

They can easily get a girl but tears run through their faces at night.

He can't find the right girl when love was in his heart.

Having girls now but the feeling of love would never return.

When hearing women complaining good men is nowhere to find on the worlld, they won't try to be a good one but just pass by with the mysterious smile.

他們可以很容易俘獲女孩子的心，但是他們也會在黑的夜裡叼著煙流淚。
心裡有愛的時候，沒有女孩。有了女孩，卻永遠沒有了愛的感覺。
在聽到女人抱怨世上沒有一個好男人時候，他們不會再去努力做個好男人，只是微笑著擦肩而過。

Hey girl, you're more attracting than I had expected.......

really good, really charming.....you made me crazy.

Is it that I am too easy to be lured?

生活的重心有點亂掉了........

hmm.........紅顏禍水 還是我定力不夠?

There might be pure and innocent girl in the world, but the chance to meet her might be smaller than finding the "legendary" true love.

But what if she's just pretending?

What if she always knows that's her greatest weapon and intended to make the best use of it?

這世界上或許有天然呆的正妹 不過遇到的機會可能還比找到傳說中的真愛還要難

There was a precious chance but I didn't be a man; maybe that's why I'm suffering as a dog now :(

So am I too slow again this time?

But it seems that she's not what I really want......

Should I stick to my rules or become one of the men?

所以這次又是我太慢出手?? 不過她似乎不是我要的 所以我該堅持下去還是該大變身呢??

No hurry confession is indeed being afraid.

But it's because of fearing the precious friendship may no longer last.

How many couple can still be friends after breaking up?

And the common friends they shared there are just so many things to consider.

Is it bold or selfish to confess?

不衝, 是因為怕失去了珍貴的友情

因為愛人的關係結束後很可能連朋友也不是

要考慮的事情太多

真的告白了 那是勇敢還是自私?

In your daily life, are there more soul couple that met and love at first sight or more "meeting the wrong person and the wrong time?"

Hmm......does it mean that I can be defined as a good man since I still can't find the girl who loves me??

It should be a good character..........or maybe not for myself? :P

That means more seeking, pursuing, and usually...........more heart-braking....

I guess I am really too old for puppy love.......but not sophisticated enough to accept the value of young girls.

大家生活中比較常聽到的例子 是一次就遇到soul mate 然後being happy ever after 比較多呢

還是好女孩遇到壞男人 or 癡情男遇到壞女人比較多呢??

hmm.........

當我遇到一些挫折時

代表的是不是我仍舊是個好男人呢??

應該是一種好的特質吧!? 即使這代表的可能是更多更多的尋尋覓覓悽悽慘慘戚戚



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quotation from movie "Marley and I" 馬利與我的反思
What would pass one's mind at the last couple of minutes before death?

What does the last couple of minutes feel like at the end of one's life?

Dog ain't care you're rich or poor, clever or dulb, smart or dumb.

You give your heart, and he will give you his.

How many people can you say that about?

How many people can make you feel rare, pure and special?

How many people can make you extraordinary?

在生命的最後幾分鐘你會想到什麼?

看著被你結束生命的對象的最後幾分鐘又是什麼感覺?

狗不在意你是貧窮或是富有,聰明或是愚昧, 你真心付出 牠就相同的對你

有多少的人可以做到那樣?

有多少的人可以讓你感到如此的稀少 純潔 又特別??

有多少的人可以讓你覺得如此的與眾不同?
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Though that no one would listen~ learn to be your one companion though they say so, always say that

"One day," your true love would come.